How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Love Lebron

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My title promises the story of a reason.  Of reason.  But there will be no reasons here, and less Reason.  Consider it more a chronicle of an evening adrift on a roiling sea of inclinations, of aversions and attachments, of affections and affinities.

Sometimes, I think that the whole teeming, cacophonous universe of basketball culture lives all inside me as in a lane tightly packed with jostling big men –  arguing with itself, voicing feelings it finds reprehensible, formulating analyses it finds arcane and over thought, impressed with its own subtlety, appalled at its own ignorance.   I watched the 2nd half of Game 7 of the Eastern Conference Finals series between the Miami Heat and the Indiana Pacers at a Public House in Northeast Ohio.  There I had, in public naturally, a mild, good-natured argument with Me-Circa-2010, only Me-Circa-2010 manifested as a late 30-something African-American man with dreadlocks wearing a flannel shirt over an Autism Awareness tee-shirt.

Let it be known that I’d often walked by, but never into, B. McK’s Public House.  Though I often arrogantly trumpet my own status as a Townie in Oberlin — smugly and only half-ironically reminding my student and faculty friends that I’m “Just a citizen, folks” — and though this is the Townie sports bar in Oberlin, I am so far from home there that from the moment I first saw the owner (?) carefully applying the letters onto the window pictured above I (a) snarkily noticed that the letters were ascending from left to right relative to the window frame and (b) ignorantly read the name as “B. Mick’s”, which is what I have been calling it, publicly, ever since.  It took an  Oberlin student from Brooklyn to pull the rug out from under all of this pretense and (a) inform me that was in fact called B. McKay’s and (b) get me actually into the bar.  Which is how I found myself walking in to the very small B. McK’s Public House in Northeast Ohio, 15 minutes from the South Beach of Lake Erie, and a half-hour from the Q, awkwardly sqeezing into the only open seat at the bar and incongruously (for myself and for the bar) ordering a Jameson’s on the rocks.

Miami was just beginning to pull away, crushing with its suddenly rejuvenated bounce the dreams of HoosierNation and the Rust Belt denizens of the Right Way who’d climbed onto the Pacers bandwagon.  The Public House was groaning and, awkwardly sitting in the center, I determinedly fixed my gaze at the TV above me as if unaffected, as if being here weren’t a huge adventure for me.  I was grinning, but only inside.  As is my habit in pickup games among strangers, I was playing conservatively, playing defense, setting picks, moving the ball and moving without it, talking minimally.  It took a few minutes for me to brazenly throw-up a contested three pointer:  “Man, I LOVE the Heat!” I said to nobody in particular, to everybody, to the words of hatred for the Heat that were a broken pillow of feathers floating in the air and settling on the bar before me.

No reaction.  The denizens of B. McK’s, the true Townies and Citizens of Oberlin  (of Northeast Ohio), ignored me and continued their strangely orchestrated composition for groans, complaints, lamentations, and thinly veiled displacements and projections.  Rankled by my apparent invisibility, my courage stiffened by the Jameson’s and a Miami runout culminating in a Ray Allen corner three, I said more loudly, “I don’t!” — meaning, “hate the Heat” — “I LOVE the Heat!”  This time I looked around, fishing for a gaze, and that is when I found Me-Circa-2010, in a different body and clothes.

I can’t write dialogue, so I won’t even try.  Let me simply share my now-fellow-Citizen’s opening sally: “How can you love the Heat, man?! They’re not even a …. real… team.”  Ho Ho! I think to myself.  I’ve had this kind of argument a dozen times in my day job at Michigan, where I am neither Townie nor Citizen but the Dr. J Distinguished Bad Prof of Cultures of Basketball.  Here, I thought to myself, I will bring to bear, through the Socratic method, a panoply of thought tools and rhetorical tricks and bring this man around.  By the end, he will write a glowing evaluation of how I had caused him to revisit the opinions he held before taking the class – er –  entering the bar.

But a Public House is not a University Classroom, I am thinking now, to the disadvantage of the classroom; and it was I who reconsidered the opinions I held:   not of Lebron, but of the stock profile image I’d formed of those who despise him.

First of all, It is not true that I love the Heat.  I can’t even say it’s true that I love Lebron.  I love to watch the Heat play well, love watching them do what they do, and I love Lebron when he appears as the Bearer of Basketball Inevitability – all which was unfolding on the screen above our heads as Me-Circa-2010 and I had our mild argument.  Moreover, Me-Circa-2010 HATED the Heat because they weren’t a real team.  Me-Then even said this in one of the very Cultures of Basketball class in January 2011 to none other than Tim Hardaway, Jr., who was, at that moment wearing a Miami Heat snapback cap and whose father had been a player-hero for the Heat and was currently employed by the franchise.  Timmy was too respectful a student to challenge me on that.  He just nodded with a look that I now understand to have meant “I know what you mean better than you do, Professor” and then let it go.

Let me be clear, I never once privately or publicly begrudged Lebron his ethical and legal right to take his talents to South Beach.  On the contrary, I publicly defended it.  And, though I found “The Decision” program to be in gaudy poor taste, I didn’t experience it as a moral outrage or as a personal offense (somewhat surprising since I am an aesthete and tend to experience poor taste as an affront directed personally at me).  Same goes for that whole weird glam-rock party with the flames and shit that Pat Riley through for Miami’s new Big Three.

But as Miami’s 2010-2011 season got off to a rocky start, I secretly rejoiced.  It had already been too much that the Celtics — and the Danny Ainge, multi-vectored target of my endless hatred, no less — had engineered a Championship Team overnight.  When the Heat followed suit, the deep nausea came from knowing with certainty that none of the franchises with which I’d ever identified — Milwaukee, Portland, or Detroit — would ever win a championship again because they would never be the kinds of places that even a Big One, let alone the Two or Three now necessary to win championships in the NBA’s New Global Order would ever want to go; at least not at least until the 22nd century when Global Warming goes into Full Effect and makes Detroit a resort destination owned by the distant descendants of Blue Ivy Carter.

I knew this, in part, because I’d already seen a younger and rawer Lebron single-handledly humiliate my Pistons en route to the 2007 NBA Finals.  Those were the same Finals where the Spurs — the aspirational twin for fans of the Going-to-Work Pistons of 2003-2008 — dismantled Lebron’s Cavs in 4 straight games, briefly reassuring those of us ensnared in false dichotomies between the Individual and the Team, and nefarious ideologies about Playing the Right Way that God was still watching.

In short, back in the early years A.L. (Anno Lebromini), I held the following truths to be self-evident: 1) that Lebron was overrated, coddled by the league and the refs, lacked both style and character; 2) that the Making a Championship Team was An Art, an art of patience, endurance, hard-work and durability and so 3) that one of these Insta-Champ Packets of Powder, especially one whose main ingredient was Lebron, was disturbing for sure, and possibly even treasonous to the Republic of Basketball and a turning away from God.

My new friend at B. McK’s says to explain why he hates the Heat and wants the Pacers to win: “Lebron spent $250,000 on alcohol at that Party they had down in Miami.”  He says, “Magic, Michael, Bird — they would NEVER do what Lebron did.”  He says, “Lebron cares more about the fame and the glam than about winning.  He has NO CHARACTER.”  He says, “Anyway, I can’t wait for the Finals: the Spurs are gonna show Miami how it’s done.”  (He also explains, to demonstrate his even-handedness, that he used to love the Heat teams of Alonzo Mourning and Tim Hardaway.  I shudder at something in me this calls forth.)

I know all of these feelings as my own because I held them.  All of this I parry good-naturedly, sometimes believing what I’m saying, sometimes not, sometimes conceding points, sometimes dismissing them, but mostly enjoying the game and that I am part of it now.  One thing I will insist upon:  Miami is a rock solid and sometimes overwhelming force of a basketball team,  by pretty much any definition of the word team.  Any honest basketball fan must admit this, regardless of how you feel about the process by which the team came to acquire the players comprising it.

Then he says, and this breaks my heart, “He left Cleveland.”  He looks at me.  And I look at him.  I can’t tell if he might want to say something more.  I think he can’t tell if I’m going to say something about that.  Everything between us becomes suddenly liquid.  “He left Cleveland,” I repeat.  “I get that.  You’re true to your home place.  That’s cool.”  I mean it, but it’s not enough as it comes out – it doesn’t meet the enormity of the Loss of Lebron, not even close.

My friend, though, deftly manages to meet me halfway, simultaneously affirming the validity of what I’d just said, relaxing his generalized hatred for the Heat, and in the process admitting that it’s all about the pain of Lebron leaving Cleveland:  “You know who I love on the Heat? I love Norris Cole.  He’s from Cleveland State.”  I nod.  I don’t say anything but I am thinking that I love Norris Cole too because the Michigan Freshman in my class this year told me that Norris Cole had come into the Michigan lockerroom along with his Miami teammate Juwan Howard and his Fab Five teammates Jimmy King, Ray Jackson, and Jalen Rose to comfort them after their loss to Louisville in the NCAA Final.  They’d been excited by that.  So I can share my friend’s love for Norris Cole.  Somehow vaguely, it comes from the same kind of place – a place in each of us that has little or nothing to do with Norris Cole and pretty much everything to do with other affections.

I wanted to find a way to impart to my friend how I came to love Lebron especially, as I say, when — as in Game 2 of the Finals — he goes off like a bomb; suddenly arising from some epochal slumber, shudders, and shakes off the whole of the basketball world, leaving even the inanimate trembling in the wake of his unprecedented capacity to dominate a game in every way it is possible to do so.

But I know that my reasons are my own and not his and, if anything, will only twist the knife in the gut of his pain.

How can it help him to know that my wife, a basketball fan by marriage only, born in Miami but in almost no way of Miami, gleefully glues herself to these Miami Heat, gawking and stomping at Lebron’s every move, even as she chokes on the venality of the Miami fans in the lower bowl? How can it help him to know what it has done for me and for my life that my wife is now in on it with me and that Lebron helped to make that happen as well?  Will he feel better because my creative and professional career have been rejuvenated thusly and so smoothly integrated into a happy marriage that the truth is I’d much rather be watching at home with my wife than sitting at the Public House among Men?

Or my quasi-obsessive fascination with the idea of Lebron as the Incarnation of Inevitability?  I haven’t even begun to understand that side of my love for Lebron.  For now it just seems to express some shameful micro-fascist love for my own enslavement and weakness, a desire to be dominated  — or at least  for there to be domination. How will that help my friend?  What could Lebron as the Incarnation of Inevitability possibly mean for him except that, at least as a sports fan, he was born in hell?

What if I had been able to articulate — as well as my friends Travis or Beckley, each in their own precise ways, did in the wake of what Lebron did in the second half of Game 2 —  my appreciation for Lebron simply as a basketball player?  Would that have soothed the pain, frustration, and resentment of Me-Circa-2010, of my friend in the bar who was anyone who has ever suffered long, hoped and hoped and hoped beyond hope, then shining rising come so close only to be ceremoniously and very publicly dumped and abandoned like a pile of useless, outgrown toy blocks on the South Beach of a dirty Lake?

I love Lebron now, because he is a bomb in the face of everyone — of all of us — who think we can know and master this game because we know something of it and its past.  And I know now too that, at least for my friend at the Public House, that bomb was a terrible thing.  And all of that lives together — and more — in my overcrowded basketball heart.

to be continued

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4 comments

  • Ann Marie Steiger Hau

    Yago, as I was reading parts of your blog to my 10 year old son, he was sure you were going to get a black eye. Just thought I would share that with you. Isaac has jumped on the Heat band wagon just to annoy all his Hoosier classmates and because I am a Marquette Alumni and we have followed the Heat since Dwayne Wade joined them I think in 2003 after his junior year at Marquette. Anyway, I enjoy your blog when I get a chance to read it. Thanks.

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    • Hahaha Ann Marie, this is great! I love that he thought that, but nope, no black eye. You can tell him that anyone who does anything to annoy HoosierNation is a friend of mine!!

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  • I actually haven’t had anything against the Heat since they assembled this team. While we both hate the Celtics, as all good Pistons fans do, what I hate even more is the absurd hypocrisy of the contrast between the unanimous celebration of Boston’s “Big 3” in the media and the avalanche of hate toward the Heat’s big signings. It’s EXTREMELY reactionary, in a labor/management sense: assembling great players via trade is all good and pure, but if star players have the temerity to team up via their own completely legal labor movement, suddenly they’re destroying the league. Probably in part because of that ridiculous reaction from media and fans alike, I’ve been 100% behind the Heat in their playoff meetings with the Celtics since then. And sure, “The Decision” was unusually distasteful, but almost all of the reaction after was so much worse, in my eyes.

    Broadly speaking, few of the criticisms against Lebron going to the Heat have made sense even on their own terms. When Kobe and Shaq split up from the Lakers, media/fan reaction was nearly unanimous in seeing that as a bad thing. People said they wanted them to stay together and contend for more titles there, rather than celebrating each guy for wanting to win “on his own,” a standard that’s apparently only reserved for Lebron. Not to mention nobody caring about Shaq having gone to LA as a free agent in the first place, and that Kobe upended the management-first nature of the draft before he had played a second in the league, by more or less forcing Charlotte’s hand in trading him to the Lakers. Apparently their Lakers titles were all good and pure to everyone regardless of how those guys got there.

    I know that sports fandom/narratives don’t have to be totally logical, and the fun of being a fan frequently runs completely against that (though I wish people would at least try to stay consistent). But basketball may never have seen a dumber narrative than the tidal waves of outrage Lebron and the Heat faced from fans and media who had little or no stake in where he went (Cleveland fans excepted).

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    • Man, as usual, you’ve hit every nail square on the head. I especially agree with and think your first paragraph re the labor relations angle is very important.

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